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What is Beyond Confidence?

You know "those" people. The ones that walk in a room and just own it. They seem like they have it all together, are completely at ease, look totally pulled together and say all the right things. People naturally gravitate to them and just like them. Ever wonder how they got like that?

Very few of us have this kind of genuine confidence and presence. One that is authentic and powerful. But despite what you may believe these folks were not just born like that.
It is a cultivated skill one you can learn and benefit from.
Sure, like anything else for some it comes easier than others. So does math but you can still learn it.
And unlike math you are really going to use it in every aspect of your life.

So where does it come from?

Genuine self acceptance is the foundation on which you can build solid self -esteem and self assurance.It starts inside the core of you and ends up flowing so strong through you other people feel it and are drawn to it. 
It is more than just confidence;  it is authentic, it is bold, it is warm and inviting. It allows you to enjoy life more, make your own rules, say what you think, ask for what you need and do business like never before.You will believe in your strengths and not worry so much about your weaknesses.You will approach people and situations with the firm knowledge you are capable and valuable eager for what lies ahead.
Imagine how good it will feel when you have that kind of comfort and confidence in yourself. When you do not have to fake it till you make because you are there.This is possible as you develop a foundation of solid self acceptance and shift to more powerful perspectives you will gain an unshakable genuine confidence then the courage to use it add a little curb appeal to present the real you and there is no stopping you!
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